Reblogged:Playing With The Hand You’re Dealt…

Isn't that what it all boils down to in life? It isn't always celebrating the things that go well or in accordance with our plans or even making our peace with the things that don't. It's finally just existing with what IS. Sometimes we are able to do it gracefully and other times it takes a…

The Bearable Lightness of Being

Red would frown seeing Kundera being quasi-plaigiarised in this manner but I honestly couldn't think of any other title for this blog post. I sometimes get the sense of things being in a separate reality as it were. And while that may have shrinks reaching for a diagnosis of psychosis but there often doesn't seem…

If.. (A Confession Of Sorts)

If I knew then what I know now I'd have learnt to swim properly and had a physique I wouldn't mind flaunting. If I knew then what I know now I'd have only beanbags or beanbag chairs instead of proper furniture or just have Japanese-inspired seating arrangements. Sounds cryptic? Read this, this, this and this.…

A Walk Down Memory Lane

Some of us actively live in the past. How things were, how they happened et al. And that's understandable. There's a comfort in looking back at things which have already occurred. You don't need to worry about them again...they're done. Maybe not dusted but you know how they've played out. It's *not* the unknown. The present…